Busy

The one day I come in early to chat with co-workers and no one is in yet.  See I  knew I should have stayed in my car and watched Youtube videos, like normal. 

I called the mortgage company, they said we have to start the process all over again.  Now they need my gross and net income as well as my monthly expenses.  I have to call them back today and provide this.  I thought they could just go off of all of the paperwork that they made me fill out over the past 4 months but no, we have to start all over because I was denied.  How stupid is that.  It’s not like anything has actually changed, but thankfully it has.  I found a huge mistake that I made so my expenses are actually more than before.  The deficit each month is huge.  Income isn’t that high and well I have to do something to cover the deficit. 

So I guess it will be another merry go round for 4 months.  I plan on completing the paperwork they sent over the weekend because I know they will be asking for it next.  I am sending it to the congressman and letting his office submit it, so they will actually hang on to it and not misplace it.  I was amazed at the number of times I had to resend documents.  The thing is they play this little game with everyone, but it seems like they are just picking on me.  After talking with lots of people I came to the conclusion that they do this to everyone.  Why, is beyond my understanding.  I guess it’s a way to get more money out of people.  There is so much more to life than money!

I got my partners medical records from the hospital that he passed away in.  They had them in reverse order so the first thing I saw is when he died.  Reading that was like he passed all over again.  There are 89 pages and I have to shell out $50 for them.  I scanned them and sent them to the attorney that was looking into the wrongful death case.  While there is no case he said that if I get them to pass them along to him because he would like to review them.  It is very doubtful that there is anything there but one never knows.  I explained that I wasn’t looking to get billed, so if there is a charge he can forget it.  I have thoughts about looking for another attorney for a 2nd opinion but right now the house issue is a little more important.

Talking with a friend last night, he said it best.  You just can’t seem to catch a break.  How accurate he is! 

I am working on the mail upgrade at work and I am really booked today, so I need to run.  Looking forward to the weekend and resting – getting to be lazy is about my only perk these days.  Well that and napping.  I look so forward to my nap on the weekend.

Happy Friday, we made it through another week.  Be well and I will talk with you again soon.