Getting to know you–What Kind of Guys do you like?

 

 

Yesterday the thought hit me, why not blog about the types of guys that you like. I enjoy writing about a topic rather than just sharing the boring details of my daily life. If you happen to think of a topic or there is something you’d like to know my opinion on, leave it in the comments I can use all the help I can get. The one graphic that I wanted for this was a list of terms that mean male, such as Guys, Dudes, Boy, Man, Men etc. in one of those pictorial charts, hopefully you know what I am talking about. Needless to say, I haven’t been able to find it on-line but now that I have put it out there, I am sure one of you will probably find something and point me in that direction, if that happens and it’s what I am talking about I will share it.

As for me my taste in guys is pretty consistent. I like younger guys so Twinks and Jocks. A little muscle is fine but I do believe you can overdo it and that is a huge turn off. I’m an ass man and small is a good thing in my book and a bubble is also a very good thing. While I can describe in words what attracts me and while you could show me the most gorgeous guy in the world and I probably would want to have sex with him, what truly is attractive is what kind of mind & personality that he has. The outside is what attracts you but the real beauty is on the inside. Guys tell me that I am good looking or cute and that my looks don’t match my age. That’s all well and good but I just don’t see it. I never have really liked the way I look, but when I check out old driver’s license photos man in my younger days, I was very much a looker, I see that now but couldn’t see it then. If I knew then what I know now, I probably would have had more sex and my life would be different (not necessarily better). Chances are in more years down the road I will look back and think about how I look today compared to my future self and think that I looked good. Beauty fades and sure you can have plastic surgery done but really only so much of that and then you become distorted. Youth is where it’s at you have your sexual peak, great amount of energy and stamina that you don’t have when you get older. As I write these words, I realize that I sound like an old geezer as if I am 80 but I’m far from that age, just about to turn 50.

I struggle with age because it marks time that you have been on earth and helps you to forecast the time you have left in most probability barring any health complications, getting hit by a bus, bullet or train. I also feel my body aging. However, I am the same little kid trapped in this old man’s body. I suppose lots of people feel the same way, hell maybe everyone feels like this.

I’ve digressed a bit but back on topic. Not sure how much into porn you are, given that I am single (widower) porn is my sex life. If you are familiar with porn then names like Aiden Ward, Ashton Webber, Blake Mitchell, Blu Kennedy, Brent Corrigan, Brent Everett, Devin Moss, Donny Forza, Drew Peters, Hunter Page, Joey Hard, Joey Mills, Johnny Rapid, Joseph Rough, JP Dubois, Kaleb Stryker, Kirk Cummings, Logan Cross, Noah Brooks, Ryan Jordan, Ryan Raz, Sam Bridle, Sam Truitt, Scott Finn, Seamus O’Reilly, Travis Stevens, Trent Ferris, Wes Russell, and Zach Covington to name a few will give you a bigger picture into the types of guys I like. Photos of them appear below.  I know I have probably forgotten a few names that I think should be in the list but the list should give you a general idea. If you know porn studios by name then Corbin Fisher (huge fan of Chandler, Jacob, Josh & Travis – guys were the best but new guys like Dane aren’t bad either), Falcon, Hot House, Helix (yes, I know there is huge drama around this place and I am not a fan of the owner but I have enjoyed past content), Raw Fuck Club and Treasure Island Media have content that is of interest to me. My first porn studio love was Falcon, they have been around for what seems like forever and back in the 80’s/90’s there was something special about the quality of movies they produced. You can say the same thing for the early Bel Ami movies as well.

One thing that some people lose sight of is that what you see on screen is a fantasy. Porn stars are people too, most are in it for the money the enjoyment of orgasm is just a plus. The character you see on screen is just that a character and the person behind the stage name has a totally separate life. It’s fine to talk to them if you see them in person but don’t get grabby and most really don’t like to be hit on. Don’t have such high hopes because chances are you will get disappointed quickly. I’ve read enough social media posts to know that. It’s about having common respect that you should give to everyone.

Earlier I mentioned that I’m an ass man so of course anal sex or anything with the butt is fair game. Not exactly sure why I am so overwhelmingly attracted to the ass. I enjoy watching everything from mild to wild. Not into bodily fluids or feet, most everything else is fair game.

I like two things in this world Men and Food. If I can’t have one then I am damn sure going to have the other. Bring on the cake! What I enjoy viewing on screen is different from what I enjoy in reality. I would describe myself as vanilla but one may not view me as total vanilla. I know what feels good and appeals to me, as well as what doesn’t. Hopefully, when the time is right, I find a guy that I am compatible with.

I am all about a smooth body or as close as you can get to it. Tattoos aren’t really my thing but if you have a couple, it’s not a show stopper, just like cologne smells differently depending on who’s wearing it, tattoo’s look really good on some folks and others not so much. I do prefer a smooth guy. Piercings are okay (there is such a thing as too many in my book). Size does matter with me and bigger can be better but you can only take so much (regardless of what cavity you are placing it in).

Hopefully, this gives you some better insight as to my preference. Maybe we have something in common, maybe not. It’s totally okay, I get that were all different and what turns one person on can easily turn another person off.

I would be remiss if I didn’t touch on this. Studios are required to validate that the performers are of legal age. Most also require testing for STI & STD’s. Some of the behavior on screen might give an alternate appearance and I am sure that there is probably a studio out there that only cares about age and not if a guy is infected with something.

Some people also confuse being gay with being a pedophile. They are two very different things. Your sexual orientation can be bi, gay or straight and you can also be a pedophile. Kids are just that kids and eventually they will grow up and learn all about sex, meanwhile let them be kids and have their innocence and enjoy life. While I wasn’t sexually abused, I do know what it’s like to be robbed of your childhood. Pedophiles have a mental disorder and need treatment, not to mention they shouldn’t be around children. Being gay is not a mental disorder but it was considered such at one point in time. It’s like Spaghetti & Donuts they are two different types of food.

Sex is like pizza, once you have it, you always want more. Everyone (for the most part) likes sex. It’s not a drug but it certainly can be an addiction. I’ve been told that most gay men want a Twink (which is gay speak for younger guy in his 20’s) so that is not uncommon. The thing is they may look good on the outside but mentally they are not the same as a full-grown adult (anyone over 30). If I could find a Twink and we could get along, that would be great. I’m not going to fool myself and think that it’s possible. It did happen for me and my late spouse, I just happened to be the younger guy. One of the few times in my life where I can say, boy was I lucky!

I hope you enjoyed this post and the eye candy that came with it. All of the images came from Google if you want to see them in their full glory just give it a Google! Thanks for stopping by, talk with you all again soon. Best wishes for the week ahead.

Awesome PC Tip

If you are anything like my partner, you are particular about your Desktop.  Icons have to be arranged a specific way and in a specific order.  Then something happens and all of a sudden your icons rearrange.  My partners blood pressure shoots up, he screams, yells and cusses.  To say he is upset is an understatement.

Well fear no more.  There is a new free program called Desktop Restore.  You download and install it, then right click and choose Save Desktop.  It will then do exactly that.  So when the next icon crisis comes up you just right click and choose Restore Desktop and presto all of your icons come back and then you can take a deep breath and relax.

This is for Windows Users only.  You can get the program again free of charge from www.midiox.com and it’s called Desktop Restore.

I put it on my partners machine this afternoon and then called him in.  I told him his PC could do magic and he said what kind of magic.  I said the icons can arrange themselves by name.  I then clicked sort by name and he panicked.   Then I sensed the blood pressure rising and he screamed why did you do that, it will take me hours to put it back to normal.  Then I said well the trick isn’t complete.  I right clicked and choose Restore Desktop and you could hear the sigh of relief and then he asked how I did that.  I told him and he was so thankful.  I love to get his heart racing it’s kind of fun, just as long as it doesn’t stop in the process.  I can’t tell you how many times he has had to rearrange his desktop, so he was very thankful that I did this.

Now for my usual disclaimer, proceed at your own risk.  If this program should happen to mess something up or something goes wrong in the process it is not my fault.  Good luck and enjoy!

Tech Tip

From time to time, I share Technical Tips on programs or things you can do to help your PC.  If you have a question, feel free to ask.  I may or may not know the answer but I will get back to you.

Recently I learned something that will help extend the life of your PC.  Now if you just bought your PC no need to do this.  If your PC is at least a year old or older then keep on reading. 

Every PC has a fan, in fact on mine there are 3.  One is on the power supply (can’t touch that).  One is on the Heat Sink and the other is just a general fan to help keep the heat down inside the case.  Ventilation is the best thing for your PC.  You ideally want to keep your machine off of the ground, even if only 1 inch.  It helps to cut down on dust.  Make sure the sides are not blocked so your machine can breathe.

Now back to the fan, powered the machine down and disconnected everything from it.  Then took it to a different area where I could work on it.  First, I blew out all of the dust with an Air Compressor, you can also use canned compressed air or if you want to be fancy and can’t stand dust (I should have done this) use a vacuum but be careful.  You need a soft brush attachment and/or a crevice tool.  Once that was done, I unplugged the fan from the Motherboard and then took out all four screws.  There is a sticker on most fans, carefully peel that off and underneath you will find an oil reservoir, use some 3 in 1 oil (be sure to use this and NOTHING else) and apply a couple drops.  Don’t use too much.  Wipe off any excess and then carefully put the sticker back.  If it won’t stick, use some tape.  Then reinstall the fan, hook up the power back to the motherboard and all is done.  This is something you need to do on an annual basis.

Why?  Well over time the lubricant that was inside the fan, will wear out with run time and heat.  The ball bearing inside the fan will then grind away and your fan will shoot craps.  All modern PC’s will shutdown if they get too hot.  If your fan does go out on you, you can pick up a new one at your local computer supply house or even Best Buy.

I did this first because I heard of the tip.  Second because my machine was making some odd noises.  I didn’t see any obvious causes and this fixed it.  It’s all quiet now except for the occasional subtle click of the hard drive.  Just like the day I brought it home some 5 years ago.  Wow, it’s been a good machine and I hope it keeps on going for a while longer.  It’s not like I can afford a new PC right now.

A few words of CAUTION.  First, if you try this your doing it at your own risk.  I’m not responsible for anything that goes wrong.  This is merely friendly advice.  If I was doing the work myself and something went wrong, that my friends would be a whole different story.  So please be careful if you do try this!

I hope that you found this helpful and that if you try it, your PC will be happier and much quieter too.  Take care and Happy Computing!