Together Forever

Last night I watched an Oprah show that was filed at Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka’s home.  Neil said that he doesn’t like the word Partner so he calls David his Fiancé.  That is certainly different. 

Neil & David are a very loving couple, that came through crystal clear along with the fact they are loaded.  They have a very nice home and their children will be very happy. 

They had photos of them taken together as a couple that were shown when it was time to head to a break. 

While it was interesting to watch, it was yet another reminder that I am alone.  I thought I would have problems sleeping but that didn’t happen.  I am not overly sad about it.  I still wish I was David Burtka.  I am so jealous of him just because he snagged NPH.  I have a huge crush on Neil, but David isn’t bad looking either. 

I am certain that they will get married probably sooner rather than later.  It’s so awesome to see them together and they compliment each other very well. 

Over the weekend I logged on to a website that my partner used to chat with other guys and publish stories.  He had lots of compliments about his stories, but they were sexual in nature and not something that I can or will share.  I found a few people checking upon him and I had to write to them and break the news.  It seems like coming out is a never ending process, so is notifying people of a death.

I told our favorite Service Technician at the Car Dealer on Friday.  He was pretty taken back.  The one reaction I don’t like is when people say your kidding me.  Why would someone kid about death?  Especially when I am talking in a monotone voice, I sound somber because it’s depressing. 

I had no vitamins over the weekend and took just a multivitamin today.  Feet still hurt but they are getting better.  Not sure if I am on to something or if it’s just a coincidence.  I am hopeful that my body will let me know sooner rather than later. 

The children have dirtied the clean rug but that was to be expected.  I just hate that it gets dirty so quickly.  They are all doing reasonably well. 

The hard part for me is figuring out what is for supper.  I have no idea.  I’ve got plenty to choose from but just not sure what I am in the mood for.  A lot depends upon how the rest of the day goes.  We all know it will be something quick.

I got Shy Girls claws trimmed.  She let me work on one paw and when I was in the process of working on her thumb she bolted like no tomorrow.  I had to go chasing after her and she was not happy about it.  She went to the bathroom but I came prepared with towels so it was an easy clean up.  The claw trimmers broke on me but I made them work until I was done with her.  Then I sat down and fixed them, kind of proud of myself.  The little vixen doesn’t have to go through this again until the end of next month.  She was sticking in the carpet, so 6 weeks is just about the right amount of time.  I brushed her and got off tons of fur.  Plus she had some knots and I got those out as well.  She is all pretty now and we are friends again.  That is until it’s time to trap her next month. 

None of my furniture came in yet so no office move yet.  I suspect most if not all of it will arrive this week.  Once it’s here and assembled then I will get the fun task of moving.  Boss man will be leaving for vacation, it will be a week of fun around here or so I hope.  I like the relaxed atmosphere while he is gone.  Too bad that can’t happen all the time.  I can only hope he leaves and doesn’t return but that is almost like saying hurry back now. 

My helper is here she clearly doesn’t want to help with computers she is off doing some typing project.  She is here to help me but she really isn’t.

The union downloaded the signed agreement a short while ago, so I expect my check to be mailed out by tomorrow and hopefully it will arrive in time for the weekend.  Something tells me they are going to make me sign for it.  I kind of hope not because getting to the post office to provide my signature will be a bit of a challenge. 

I’ve got work stacking upon me so I should get back.  Not that I want to.  I’d rather be at home sleeping with the children.  Nap time is awesome and I am looking forward to it next weekend.  Nothing on the books for the weekend yet but give it time I am sure something will crop up.

Y’all take care and I will talk with you peeps later.