Saturday

Wow, it’s been a truly amazing day!  I got up and did the usual feed the children and eat breakfast.  Then I got on Grindr and couldn’t pull myself away in time, so I had to drive like a mad man to make it to my therapy appointment.  I was a couple minutes late but my therapist said I was on time.  It was good being able to bring her up to speed.  She is worried that since the holidays are coming that I might need more sessions and offered to refer me to someone locally who could take care of me.  I told her that I really didn’t want to start at square one and tell my story all over again.  So were sticking with 1 time per month.  There is a strong possibility that I won’t be able to see her in December, but we shall see.

After therapy I was tired and really thought long and hard about a nap.  I ventured to the post office where I got a check for $13 for overpayment to the title company.  Nice surprise but it’s not the larger check that I am looking for.  I also learned that if I deposit that check into my virtual checking account vs. my virtual savings account the hold time is only 2 days, whereas in savings it’s 5 days.  Lesson learned!  Then I went on to the pet food store and managed to spend $93 in cat food, treats, litter and urine remover.  Jesus Christ, I nearly shit my pants when she told me the total.  After that I just came home.  I wanted to go out to eat but needed to review my finances.

I played with Grindr a little more.  A cute guy chatted me up and I am all crazy like a school girl about it.  I wanted him to carry the conversation since he started things, but he is slow on the uptake.  I put away the cat food, and then drank a soda.  I got my nap in and it was spectacular, so much so that I wanted another.  However, the house chores were calling. 

I got out the steam cleaner only to learn that the bladder apparently has a small leak in it.  Not too happy.  I cleaned up the urine as best as I could.  The house smelled so I opened the windows.  Momma didn’t like that because she is chewing off her fur and a cool breeze blew in, man she took off like she was on fire.  I had to close the back door to appease her.  I fed them lunch and made a pizza for myself.  It was very good.

Then I yeah fired up Grindr again and holy crap a cashier from the pet food store appeared.  I knew it was him, so I hit him up.  He just responded a little bit ago.  Not sure if we are going to hit it off, but there is only like 7 years difference between us.  He’s not the guy that I have been hot for at the pet food store, but he is a guy and well I mean I wouldn’t kick him out of bed, not that I am actually ready for sex.  He like me is looking for a relationship and he doesn’t want sex at the moment.  So there is a possibility there.

I am breaking out my long sleeve shirts, that means extra laundry for the winter wardrobe change over but it’s time.  I heard from my friends about turkey day and we are all set for a party of 4.  It should be a good time and I am looking forward to it, very much.  Even though I really don’t need the food.  I suppose we will be talking about Christmas and getting together.  It would be nice if I eventually had someone to bring with me or even started a tradition on my own with someone. 

The place where my car is financed through sent me a letter, telling me that because I have been such a good customer and made on-time payments they are offering me the opportunity to skip my December payment.  There will be a charge of $25 and interest accrues as well.  Now since December will be my very last payment to them, why in the world would I want to skip it?  They have made me the same offer for the past 4 years and each time I decline because it will only make the life of the loan longer and cost me more money in the end.  I am eager to pay it off and say that it’s mine!  That will of course make it easier for me to sell, which is a good thing as well as giving me money that I can just pocket.  I will be doing my very best to save, save, save as much and as often as I can.  If things go like I am hoping they will my financial future looks pretty bright – who would have ever thought I would say something so positive?  I realized today in therapy that the world is changing and things are in fact getting better.  There are bumps in the road like with Mr.. Blu but you can and will bounce back from them.  It’s all about moving forward as best as you can and never giving up.

Well off to surf the internet and see what I can learn that has transpired in the adult entertainment world.  The weekend rolls on with 1 more day of fun and hopefully sun too.  Enjoy and I will talk with you peeps later.