Some common questions asked to gay people

1. ‘When did you decide to be gay?’

Being gay isn’t a decision, it’s who you are sexually attracted to. It doesn’t define every aspect of your life or personality. It just means that you like to sleep with people of the same sex. I have never actually been asked this.

2. ‘What do you actually do in bed?’

What a person does in their own bed for sexual gratification can vary. You have the vanilla to the wild. Unless you’re in bed with me, this is a question best left to your imagination. I have never been asked this.

3. ‘Are you the man or the woman?’

This is a question that I got asked one time. One guy can be more effeminate than the other but at the end of the day your both men. Some people ask this question to find out if you are a bottom.

4. ‘Do you know my gay cousin, John?’

Being gay doesn’t mean we know every other gay in the world. I got asked ths one as well.

Can you think of any others? Post your own suggestions below.

5. How do you know if you have never been with someone of the opposite sex?’

How does Grandpa know that he likes Grandma if he hasn’t tried being with another dude? It’s pretty simple you know who you are attracted to and who makes your heart skip a beat. Some people try the heterosexual way but as for me, I am a gold star gay (meaning I have never been with a woman). It’s just not something that appeals to me at all.

If you have a question or something you’d like to know, leave them in the comments.  If appropriate I will respond either directly to the comment or in a future post.